Is it meant to last or was it bound to fail?
Do doubts from the very beginning bode well?
If it could fall apart so many times, what keeps it together?
How do I know when downs prevail over ups (or the other way round)?
Do we complement each other actually?
Is the balance between giving and taking struck?
Haven’t I forced those common goals upon?
Is carefree life a value itself?
Where do you yourself life-wise in five years? Is it a part of any plan or do you just flow with the tide?
When can you say a human is emotionally mature?
Is being an adult overwhelming?
A career, earning and spending, dog-breeding, sport, consuming, chasing pleasures of life – is it fine enough? Can I seek depth in it? Can I chase sense init?
Does parenthood alter a human? Does it deprive them of freedom? Is it being slowly regained as offspring grow up?
How much patience does it take to tolerate a life companion? Was he right to say a fellow (wo)man will always f**k you up, so you need to love them to bits to put up with them?
Is sticking to values and goals more important than continuity of a relationship?
Why do people get stuck in mediocre set-ups? Out of convenience or out of fear?
How long will she be deferring that decision? By the time she lives it up fair enough? By the time she earns more money? By the time she carefully thinks it over? By the time she grows mature? By the time it’s too late?
Are we playing for time?
How fed up could I get to realise there can be a better way?
Can a mere fascination be considered infidelity?
Can fatigue of being taken make a man act like a single?
When indifference become a warning sign?
Is a frank conversation overrated?
Is she still a girl scared of responsibilities adulthood involves?
Does she hope it gets too late and I will accept it?
How much space is between a perfect match and a perfect mismatch?
Am I picking nits or are we arguing about elementary stuff?
Are we just passing time?
What holds me back from moving ahead?
What brings out a fear of taking a wrong decision?
How long can we carry on like this?
…and many more…
1 comment:
1) Breed first - then start having doubts. Biology should be your driver. The next generation will be crucial to the future arc of human history. Become a father. Cherish the infant or infants - parenthood is an amazing high.
2) When does life start? The priest: "At conception". The pastor: "At birth". The rabbi: "When the kids leave home". I go with the rabbi. Dutifully bring new sentient life into the world; nourish it with wisdom - then let go (like the archer releasing the arrow that's been drawn and targeted well).
3) Once free, set off to discover the truest meaning of reality and the Cosmos. You will have 30 or 40 years if you are careful.
That is all.
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